Truths From Gone With the Wind

     Yesterday, I decided I should work a little on my quilt. I like to have something interesting on t.v. to keep me entertained while I do this. So, I popped in my VHS of Gone With the Wind, (yes I still have those and a VCR!) For reasons I can't really explain because I don't fully understand myself, this is my favorite movie. My friend Meghan challenges me on this all the time. She thinks it is depressing. I agree, but I still love it! Anyway, I started watching it for the umpteenth time yesterday. I mean really, I can quote much of the movie! But something struck me for the first time. There is a lot of truth in what the characters are saying. Here are some of those truths:

Mammy: "What gentlemen says and what they thinks is two different things." So much truth in that statement. 


Scarlett: "Why does a girl have to act so silly to catch a husband?" Oh, Scarlett, you are so right!


Rhett:  "Although you need kissing, badly. That's what's wrong with you. You should be kissed and often, and by someone who knows how." Swoon. If only a cute guy would say that to me. Oh, wait....go back to truth number one!


Scarlett: "Oh, I can't think about that right now. I'll go crazy if I do. I'll think about that tomorrow." I completely understand, Scarlett.


Scarlett: "After all, tomorrow is another day." It's always best to have a positive attitude!



                                              

This One is For All the Single Ladies!

     In my 29 and almost 1/2 years (GASP!) of being alive, I somehow have managed to remain single! I really don't know how this happened. It certainly isn't something that I planned! I've been thinking about all the things I've learned while never having a boyfriend. Misconceptions and light-bulb moments I've had along the way. Here are my top 10!

10. Hands down, men are the most confusing creatures on planet Earth. Period. Not even kidding.

9. Guys are only human. Since they are the stronger sex, I tend to think they have it all figured out. News Flash! They don't. They don't have some master plan in mind. They don't know what they are doing any more than I do. They have insecurities, doubts, and weaknesses. They are figuring out life just as I am.

8. I am a rather independent girl. I have had to learn to do things that I didn't know how to do. I have had to learn to do many things alone. I don't need a man to be happy. I can recall times when married women my age have said they couldn't handle being single. In my world, they would have to learn really quickly, because they wouldn't have a choice! 

7. Although I fully understand I don't need a man, I've learned that it's ok to want a relationship with one. 

6. People call men dogs to insult them. I have decided that is actually a complement. My dog loves me unconditionally, cries when I leave, and is excited to see me when I come home! If only it were that easy to get a guy to feel that way for me lol! :)

5. I used to love sappy romance movies. Not anymore. They make me sick! Nothing happens like that in real life. 

4. Love is not something you earn or deserve. It is a gift from God. Sadly, I don't think most people view it this way.

3. My value as a person isn't determined by what guys think of me. I've often felt I wasn't good enough for a relationship and that's why I've never had one. Not true. 

2. Beauty is not based on size. This one is really important to me. I've always believed guys don't want a relationship with me because I'm short and curvier. I've always thought I wasn't pretty enough or skinny enough. I don't know why I started thinking this. Obviously, there are married women of all different shapes and sizes. In my head I know this, but making my heart believe is harder at times. I am learning to embrace the attributes I have and remember that a beautiful spirit and heart is what truly matters most.

1. God is ultimately in control. There is no formula I can follow to get to the desired outcome. He makes no sense to me. I don't understand why He hasn't allowed me to experience dating someone. I don't understand why I have this unusual story. I really don't. There is SO much I don't understand about what He has done and is doing in my life. I get really discouraged at times. All I can do is follow His leading and trust that He has a plan for my life even though it doesn't make sense to me. (Which is so difficult!) This may sound very "religious" but I really mean it. 


Well, there they are! My top 10 list of things I've learned while never having a boyfriend. I hope this encourages all the single ladies out there! Being single has its hard moments, but overall I think I have a rockin' good time! Living, laughing, and loving! :)

Be Bold

     I live in a world filled with white walls. White gets boring after a while. Recently, I was rewarded by my apartment management with the opportunity to get an accent wall. I was beyond excited! It's the little things. I got a color wheel which had tons of options. Really.....Probably over 200 cards with 8 shades of color on each one! 

It was a hard decision. Should I go neutral? Tan? Brown? Yellow? Red? I have red living room furniture, so I thought that would be really vibrant and fun. I narrowed it down to a couple shades that caught my eye....Poinsettia and Enticing Red. I asked my friend Merrill what she thought and she also liked those two.

I made the final decision to go with Enticing Red because it was the first one that I really liked and it was bright! Go with your gut.

Before pic.....

And after!

What a difference a little paint makes!

I absolutely LOVE it!!!

A bold pop of color is just what I needed.

Be bold!!!